From instant connections to immediate rejections to a sudden change of fate, ABC readers take us on an emotional rollercoaster ride with their modern dating experiences.
We asked for your modern dating love stories — this is what you told us
From awkward introductions over a can of soft drink to life-changing lunches, here are some of the stories ABC readers told us about their modern dating experiences.
Topic:Dating
Sat 21 Feb 2026 at 5:30am
How Indonesians are fighting plummeting marriage rates
Marriage is still a life goal in Indonesia, but the number of marriages has plummeted over the past decade.
Topic:Marriage
Sat 14 Feb 2026 at 10:32am
'Mismatch' between Gen Z and Beijing captured on China's dating show
Long-running global hit If You Are the One returns to Australia to recruit contestants from a younger generation, many who do not prioritise marriage. Here is why the show is still relevant.
Topic:Reality TV
Mon 24 Nov 2025 at 8:14am
'A great friend': Young Australians on their relationships with AI chatbots
Some Australians would rather stay home and talk to an AI bot than go out with friends, according to a YouGov survey.
Topic:AI
Wed 22 Oct 2025 at 7:09am
How to make a first date safer and red flags to look out for
Both people involved in a date are responsible for creating a safe environment, experts say.
Topic:Dating
Fri 17 Oct 2025 at 3:56pm
'Why marry at all?' Woman upset at matchmaking service
Chinese Australian women are paying thousands of dollars to find love on matchmaking platforms in Australia, but behind the glossy promotions lies a different reality.
Topic:Dating
Sun 12 Oct 2025 at 6:24am
'I drove 5 hours for a date': Single farmers find different ways to meet people
When the dating app radius won't reach the edge of your property, and you're harvesting grain from sun-up til sundown, how do you find a partner?
Topic:Dating
Wed 8 Oct 2025 at 4:48pm
Why is the second-most-popular app in the US controversial?
Experts have raised concerns that women-only app Tea deepens gender divides and fosters a culture of surveillance and mistrust.
Topic:Social Media
Sat 30 Aug 2025 at 3:02pm
Online dating may not be the best way to meet a partner, study shows
Online dating offers a bigger pool of potential partners, but a new study shows it can lead to less passionate, satisfying and intimate relationships.
Topic:Dating
Sun 24 Aug 2025 at 11:21am
Naomi says this welfare test is stopping her finding love
A common welfare test has been labelled "prehistoric" and linked to financial abuse. So why is it so controversial?
Topic:People With Disability
Wed 30 Jul 2025 at 10:25am
What life is like as a sugar baby who dates older men
In the 'sugar dating' world, attractive young women date rich older men to facilitate the kind of romance you pay for. But things can go wrong when sex mixes with money, wealth and power.
Topic:Sex Work
Fri 16 May 2025 at 9:51am
When Stacey started dating Steve, she let go of her preconceptions
For Stacey Donchi, a shared love of Dungeons and Dragons, Star Wars and board games with Steve Lyons far outweighed her family and friends' concerns about her dating a man with no legs and one arm.
Topic:Human Interest
Tue 1 Apr 2025 at 12:20pm
Women on dating apps more likely to get cosmetic work, study finds
The study published by the University of South Australia found one in five women are having at least one procedure in their lifetime.
Topic:Body Image
Fri 21 Feb 2025 at 6:52am
Debbie was contestant number one and fell in love with Mike
After 33 years of marriage, Michael and Debbie Neat are proof reality TV dating shows can work.
Topic:Feel Good
Mon 17 Feb 2025 at 9:17am
Too few singles in the bush leads 23-year-old to create dating app
Dating in the bush isn't easy, especially with a limited dating pool. But instead of giving up, one young woman built a dating app to change that.
Topic:Dating
Sun 16 Feb 2025 at 3:03pm
Indonesians use 'loyalty tests' to check partner fidelity
In Indonesia, a "loyalty test" service offers to put relationships to the test — for as little as $1.70. From flirty texts and late-night calls to in-person meetings, hired testers push boundaries to see if a partner will stay loyal or take the bait.
Topic:Dating
Mon 17 Feb 2025 at 8:12am
'No situationships, no dating apps, no exes': The women going 'Boysober'
What if being single wasn't a problem to be solved but a state of bliss? For some women, living without their "other half" is the key to being complete.
Topic:Relationships
Sat 8 Feb 2025 at 8:00am
I used to hide my disabilities on dates. Now I realise I don't need a disguise
When re-entering the dating world after ending a long-term relationship, Hannah decided to do things differently, putting the exhausting task of disguise behind her.
Perspective by Kellie Scott
Thu 12 Dec 2024 at 10:56am
'The fear is always there': Women of colour share their experiences of dating apps in Australia
Some women of colour think Australia's digital dating culture is "chill". But others have experienced racism on the apps and feel unsure about how a new nationwide code will protect them.
Topic:Dating
Sun 3 Nov 2024 at 9:09am
Dating code will require Tinder, Hinge to act on dangerous users, cooperate with law enforcement
Tinder, Hinge and other online dating platforms will have six months to become compliant with a code of conduct designed to make the matchmaker apps safer, after years of reported failures to act on sexual assaults enabled by their platforms.
Topic:Dating
Tue 1 Oct 2024 at 3:15pm